Deadbeat Parents

I have no idea why or how people become deadbeat parents. I can't fathom how they let that happen. Luckily neither of my parents are that way. A lot of the time, the young dead beat dads are because they're still growing and even though they think they're so manly, all they're displaying is how immature they still are. And a lot of couples that have kids young tend to give up so easy. But actual matured people and people old enough to take responsibility of being a parent should do whatever they can to be the best parent possible. I don't know how someone could walk out and give up. All that does is ruin the kids life. And I would always think that those episodes would always want to make the kid work hard and use the hurt and absence of a parent as motivation to always be better. But for some strange reason they just follow in their footsteps which is literally one of the dumbest things ever. They always complain of their parents and then end up the same way. Its retarded.


There are so many qualities that could make someone a good parent. And they could even be little things. All a kid really wants is for their mommy and daddy to simply just BE THERE and STAY. I don't understand whats so hard about that. I'm not saying you can't abe a good teenage parent, but most of the time you'll be a better parent if you wait until you're older. That way you have a stable life and enviroment for your child to live in. The more time you wait , you develope more maturity and a sense of how to live securely. Playing with your kid and simply paying attention are huge in being a parent. There are so many other things like teaching, laughing, spending as much time with them as possible... just so many simple things that some people just don't want to even put effort into. But I never had to worry about those things so yay to me.